Dating a man 16 years older than you

You are in your late twenties, a time in life when you are just beginning to become sure of who you are and what you want.You are creating your life while he is already in the prime of his. You can't teach an old dog not to eat a bag of potato chips right before bed, as they say.12. This isn't our first time at the vagina rodeo, if you know what I mean. We've picked up a lot of habits (some bad and some good), but you're not about to change them. It was my pal’s birthday party and the first time I had ever dragged my latest man-friend out with my buddies. ” Anything that would shut her up and let me enjoy my prized romance.I wasn’t sure how it would go, yet there he was, charming the pants off them all by himself, busting out his A-material small talk with some friends in a corner. Instead I shoved a cracker in my mouth and mulled over her question as I pretended it was hard to chew. Yes, my new man was older than me, much older than me.Dear Christine, I started dating a man and we have an amazing connection. I had NEVER considered or imagined I would be drawn to someone so much older. Do I turn away what seems to be my perfect match because of the age gap?

He was more exciting to be with than any of the 20-something guys I knew.

" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.

Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...

Being the older, wiser man is a power trip for him.

And that's all about , the said power trip he is getting off on should be overt.